.We don't have an "our house, our rules" attitude with our kids.
With other adults, sure. We have our way of doing things. If someone chooses to come over, they agree to respect our home. If they don't agree, they are free to leave.
Our kids didn't ask to be born to us. They didn't get to choose. They never agreed to anything. They cannot leave whenever they wish.
Papa Bear and I, we agreed to raise these children. We agreed to bring these tiny, helpless, innocent people into our home and raise them in love and respect, to the best of our ability. We agreed to share our home with these two until they are ready to head out on their own.
This is their house just as much as ours.